Insequeris, fugio; fugis, insequor. Haec mihi mens est:
velle tuum nolo, Dindyme, nolle volo.
--Martial, Epig. V.83
You flirt, I play hard to get.
You play hard to get, I flirt.
This is my mindset, Dindymus:
I don't want to want to be yours,
I want to not want you.